Nikki Durkin

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Failure is everywhere – we just can’t see it

9:40AM | Wednesday, 3 September

On June 18th, 2014, I sat in a coffee shop and stared at my laptop. A pitchdeck stared back at me with all the standard trimmings of startup optimism — graphs that leapt up and to the right, a market size of brilliant proportions, and our logo: 99dresses.   I’d just pitched another VC and I’d just heard another subtle no. You know, the kind where they don’t explicitly tell you that your baby is ugly but they want to ‘keep in touch’ to see her mature, just in case she develops some kind of redeeming quality such as 1000% month over month growth.   My phone vibrated in my pocket and I saw my co-founder’s question pop up: “How did it go?”   “Le shit,” I muttered under my breath. I’d developed the terrible habit of abusing French articles whilst working alongside my French-speaking co-founder, Marcin.   I’d also developed a terrible habit of singing my to-do lists in the office, despite inheriting the vocal talents of my tone-deaf father — a man who was kicked out of his school’s mandatory choir, possibly for causing some kind of irreparable ear damage to the music teacher. My singing always ignited playful outrage amongst the team and usually resulted in a pen being hurled at my head from across the room.   I was going to miss that.   I sat for a minute longer, closed my laptop and caught the subway back to our office. Cabs were for founders who had money in the bank.   “How did it go?” Marcin asked again as I sat down at my desk.   “Oh, same old,” I replied with a forced smile. “They don’t do bridge rounds, and they want to know why our current investors aren’t leading.”   I cracked a bad joke at my expense — humour being my default response to serious situations. The team — or what was left of it after I had to lay off the last hire — laughed. Morale was low, but we’d always share our off sense of humour.   I mustered up some courage. “Marcin, we need to talk.” Grave words in any relationship. We stole a conference room and Marcin started: “It’s time, isn’t it?”   My eyes welled up and I began to cry. We’d tried to extend our runway as long as possible, but we’d reached our limit. It was over, and now the hardest part was saying it out loud.   Going viral   I stared at the screen. This time it wasn’t at a pitchdeck, but at a big black number in the top left hand corner of my Medium dashboard. I refreshed again, and my ‘total views’ had jumped once more to over 130,000 in 24 hours.   What. The. Fuck.   This is what it felt like to ‘go viral’, and ironically enough I’d achieved this coveted and mystical phenomenon by writing about how I’d failed.   Every glance at my inbox revealed hundreds, and then thousands, of emails from other entrepreneurs thanking me for being such a martyr. The word “brave” popped up a lot, and whilst the gratitude was humbling I couldn’t help but feel a disconnect.   My imposter syndrome reared its gnarly head again.   Brave? I wasn’t brave. Maybe it looked like that from the outside but from my perspective all I did was press ‘publish’ whilst intoxicated by emotion, releasing my story softly into the world like a dove from my palm. I never once thought about the implications of baring my inner turmoil to the public. I never did a risk assessment. I never even expected anyone to read it, save some friends and family and a few people who might be experiencing failure themselves.   You see, I wrote that piece straight after that meeting with Marcin a few days earlier. I was emotional. I was raw. I was frustrated that I felt so alone. I’d just decided to shut down a project that had consumed me for many years, and I couldn’t think straight. I was supposed to make a plan for winding everything down, but instead I sat in numbing silence.   I opened Evernote and started writing. Maybe that would help. Maybe all I needed to do was relive some memories: close my eyes and conjure that feeling of elation on YC demo day, the excitement of January’s massive growth numbers, the joy of small moments spent with a team I adore. All these emotions enlarged by the gaping lows of cofounders leaving, funding rounds disintegrating and periods of traction flatter than the Australian outback.   Maybe I just needed to realise how far I’d come, and then it would all be OK. Then maybe that unshakable feeling of embarrassment and isolation would go away.   I wasn’t brave. I was partaking in therapy. I published that article as much for me as for anyone else. 99dresses was the love I’d married as a teenage bride with all the naiveté and optimism of youth. We’d grown together, evolved. She was a part of me, and this was her eulogy.   After publishing the article the first emails I received were from friends offering their condolences and a vodka-fuelled night out.   Next came hundreds of emails from the tech community, many recounting their own experience of failure as their brainchild silently slipped into a coma and faded into oblivion — just another startup dream added to the swirling black deadpool.   Then, after a couple of days and over a quarter million views, my story started to seep into different communities — ones that had nothing to do with investors and geekery.   I started receiving emails from small business owners who’d risked everything to start a local flower shop or a village boutique that cruelly collapsed. There was the passionate golfer who tried and failed at a pro career, and the film director who had come so close to producing his own box office hit, only to have it slip through his fingers like dry sand and disappear into the wind. Another dream lost.   I was humbled that my story resonated with so many people. And honestly, I was a bit surprised.   Until then, I never realised just how common failure was. I’m not talking about failing at little things: I fail at little things on a regular basis.   I’m talking about big, monumental, life-altering, embarrassing, devastating fuck ups.   You don’t really hear about them in the media.   You don’t really hear about them in the blogosphere.   You don’t really even hear about them from your peers.   Yes, I published a very raw account of my startup’s failure on Medium. But no, I don’t believe it was brave. It just felt like the right thing to do — for myself and for others in my situation.   Beautiful stories deserve to be told, even if they don’t have a happy ending. They are bitter sweet.   They are also real.   Failure is everywhere, and if the stories aren’t told then we’ll never see it.   I’m planning on exploring more on this topic and possibly even doing a book with a collection of failure stories from other founders due to popular demand. If you’d like to be updated with new stories and information about the book then please click here to join my mailing list.   Nikki Durkin is founder & CEO of 99dresses. Aussie transplant in NYC. @nikkidurkin99    This story originally appeared on Medium and is republished with permission.

US start-up Twice offers $1 million ‘acqui-hire’ bounty

3:51AM | Tuesday, 12 March

A US start-up called Twice is pushing the ‘acqui-hire’ trend to new levels by offering $1 million to acquire any “well-qualified” technical and design-savvy entrepreneurs who have failed with their own ventures.

Sydney Uni’s student union launches start-up program Incubate

9:19PM | Monday, 24 September

The University of Sydney Union has launched a development program in the hope of identifying high-potential start-ups on campus, securing entrepreneur Matt Barrie as a mentor.

Sydney start-up Project PowerUp sold to Alchemy Equities

9:09AM | Thursday, 13 September

The founder of crowdfunding platform Project PowerUp has set its sights on the United States after selling the business for less than $1 million, barely a year after it was launched.

The rise of school-aged soloists

8:49AM | Wednesday, 22 August

Real or imaginary risk puts off plenty of aspiring entrepreneurs from taking the plunge, especially if they are faced with the prospect of doing it all by themselves.

10 Aussie start-ups gunning for Silicon Valley

5:20AM | Thursday, 31 May

For Australian start-ups dreaming of making it big in the US, the transition time from launching to jumping on a pan-Pacific flight seems to be getting quicker and quicker.

Flightfox accepted into Y Combinator after snagging $800,000

5:07PM | Wednesday, 30 May

Australian travel start-up Flightfox has been accepted into US-based incubator Y Combinator and raised $800,000 in capital, just months after joining Startmate, the Sydney accelerator.

Video Interview: Nikki Durkin from Y Combinator

3:14AM | Thursday, 14 March

This article first appeared May 7th, 2012.   Nikki Durkin is a well-known name in the Australian start-up world.

Is it time to pivot?

5:27AM | Wednesday, 2 May

As far as buzzwords go, to “pivot” is a term that many Australian start-ups would still respond blankly to. But the concept, now established in Silicon Valley, is starting to gain traction Down Under.

10 female entrepreneurs breaking down the tech boy’s club

5:26AM | Wednesday, 2 May

Our coverage last week of female representation – or lack of it – in Australia’s tech industry provoked a surge of comment within the sector.

Three start-ups to watch in Y Combinator’s latest batch

3:16AM | Thursday, 29 March

Start-up incubator Y Combinator has held its 14th demo day for 65 start-ups, with many start-ups fielding investment offers following their presentations.

Five reasons to start-up in 2012 – and five reasons to think twice

3:51AM | Friday, 15 March

Figures released this week by the Australian Bureau of Statistics illustrate what many budding entrepreneurs have long suspected – conditions aren’t all rosy for new businesses.

99dresses shuts down amid financial woes

3:23AM | Monday, 11 March

Australian start-up 99dresses has temporarily closed its doors after 20-year-old founder Nikki Durkin ran into financial troubles, although the business’ former incubator is confident that Durkin will bounce back.

How Aussie start-ups can crack the US

5:33AM | Wednesday, 2 May

Atlassian is held up as something of a trailblazer among Australia’s start-up community, and with good reason.

Project PowerUp sets sights on Silicon Valley

11:49AM | Thursday, 24 November

The founder of Sydney-based crowdfunding site Project PowerUp says he plans to visit Silicon Valley early next year to drum up interest from investors, with the possibility of relocating there.

99dresses founder Nikki Durkin joins Y Combinator

11:26PM | Sunday, 20 November

Twenty-year-old Australian entrepreneur Nikki Durkin will participate in the fabled Y Combinator program in the United States, as she seeks to replace eBay as the world’s premier online fashion portal.

Australia’s top 10 female start-up entrepreneurs

5:27AM | Wednesday, 2 May

When it comes to women in business, Australia is lagging behind the rest of the world. Still.

10 pearls of wisdom from the Future Makers

5:24AM | Wednesday, 2 May

Wisdom, as they say, comes with age. But when it comes to starting up, the lessons not only come thick and fast, they also come early.

Invasion of the big brands

5:46AM | Wednesday, 2 May

Despite the doom and gloom in the retail sector, there’s been a plethora of large, overseas brands enter the Australian market recently.

99dresses and rome2rio among iAward winners

8:40AM | Monday, 8 August

Online start-ups 99dresses and rome2rio have been honoured at the 2011 iAwards, while Sajari and Calibre Hosting were among the winners of this year’s MEGA NSW event.

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